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B's Moon is Sextile A's Sun (Orb 3°53')
This is an ideal combination for a close, personal relationship whether it be a close friendship or love relationship. B and A enjoy each other's company and feel that the other person is giving something special to the relationship. They have a lot in common and the ability to share enjoyable times together. A is likely to be the more dominant person in the relationship believing her identity and individuality are likely to be enhanced by the association. Perhaps A receives emotional support from B which contributes to a greater sense of being alive and an ability to achieve her personal goals. A may appreciate B's emotional insights. On the other hand B feels comforted by the relationship, perhaps playing a supportive role and offering emotional insights and comfort. Alternatively B may simply feel secure within the relationship, experiencing a sense of well being. This relationship provides B with a supportive base from which to explore life. Both B and A understand each other and enjoy an easy rapport, which augurs well for their association.
B's Moon is Sextile A's Ascendant (Orb 2°46')
It is significant in relationship astrology when one person's planet makes contact with the Ascendant in another person's chart. In this case B's Moon is combining with A's Ascendant indicating that this is a significant personal relationship. B and A feel strongly drawn to each other, enjoying a strong and loving bond. This relationship satisfies the emotional needs of B, who feels comforted by relating to A. B gains new insights about himself and relating through his association with A. In turn A is attracted to B's willingness to be vulnerable and loving, and feels supported by this union. While this combination is most likely to indicate an intimate love union, it can also augur well for friendships, family relationship and work associations.
A's Moon is Square B's Moon (Orb 1°46')
This is a difficult combination for close, personal relationships whether they be friendships or love relationships. However it is not unusual to see a connection between two lovers' Moons. Emotional tensions can arise easily through misunderstandings. In the long term unresolved tension can lead to breakdowns in the relationship. Therefore it is important to resolve emotional problems rather than leave them in the hope that everything will turn out all right in the end. The problem is not a lack of care or love. In fact A and B can be very much in love and are often baffled as to why they just can't seem to feel secure within a loving relationship. The problem is that both A and B seek comfort and emotional satisfaction in different ways. This is where the misunderstandings arise. Perhaps one of them likes action in times of stress while the other likes to withdraw and ponder on the best path forward. Possibly one person wants to seek comfort in the arms of their loved one when faced with life's stresses, while the other wants to create some alone time. Whatever the manner in which A and B seek comfort it is likely to differ from each other. There is a positive side. This combination enables A and B to develop a better understanding of the each other, particularly if they can maintain a compassionate and understanding approach. It is also possible that other aspects of their personal charts mean that they enjoy a little spice in life. Perhaps a little tension is better than a void? If both people are committed to working through emotional problems this can lead to a satisfying and rewarding relationship.
A's Moon is Opposite B's Venus (Orb 6°58')
When planets combine unfavourably in personal relationships it can produce either sparks, which excite both parties, or friction. Either way a challenge is presented which needs to be met in order to succeed in the long term. With this combination A and B have difficulty expressing their feelings and often feel misunderstood by each other. A and B have trouble relaxing and feeling at ease with each other. There is a lack of harmony that troubles them. A and B sometimes feel that they are battling to find shared activities that they can both enjoy. In extreme cases they may feel that they are fighting against the other person's involvement with an absorbing pastime. Or perhaps they feel that their partner stands in the way of them really enjoying their own pleasurable pursuits. No matter how much A and B want to enjoy themselves, their partner seems to be standing in opposition, or determined to do their own thing. Depending on other aspects of their relationship and the nature of the combination of these planets, this can be a real problem. It's also likely that they have difficulty deciding how to save and spend their money. A is likely to feel some insecurity in the relationship. B is likely to feel that the A's feelings and insecurities are holding him back from relating to other people and the world in the way that he wants. On a more positive note this combination can add a spark to life and keep A and B willing to resolve difficulties to a satisfactory conclusion.
A's Sun is Conjunct B's Ascendant (Orb 7°55')
It is significant in relationship astrology when one person's planet makes contact with the Ascendant in another person's chart. In this case A's Sun is combining with B's Ascendant indicating that this is a significant personal relationship. A and B feel strongly drawn to each other, experiencing a sense of completeness in each other's company. A can really shine through her association with B. She appreciates the benefits that this union brings into her life and the way in which B helps her achieve her personal goals. In turn B has a greater sense of well-being through his association with A. He welcomes the sunnier aspects of A's personality and appreciates their mutual respect and affection. While this combination is most likely to indicate an intimate love union, it can also augur well for friendships, family relationship and work associations.
A's Sun is Opposite B's Sun (Orb 1°20')
Any connection between two personal planets is considered auspicious in relationship astrology; however, difficult aspects can present a challenge. In this case the couple's Suns are making a difficult connection. On the one hand it is a positive sign that their Suns are connected. On the other hand A and B are presented with the challenge of overcoming some problems before experiencing the full rewards of this union. This is true whether they are forming a love relationship, friendship, family connection or working association. The major problem is one of rivalry. A and B experienced the instant attraction that comes with meeting someone different. They are poles apart in the way that they view the world. At first this seemed exciting, enticing and romantic. As times moves on, and the initial excitement wears off, they are presented with the obstacle of communicating with someone who views the world in a different manner. They are at cross-purposes and may resort to competing with each other, rather than co-operating. This can be frustrating, causing both A and B to sometimes feel as though they are 'hitting their heads against a brick wall,' as the saying goes. As long as there are other positive aspects in this relationship, both A and B are likely to overcome the obstacles and create a harmonious and loving relationship. However, they will both have to learn to 'walk a mile in someone else's moccasins'.
B's Sun is Opposite A's Mars (Orb 8°45')
This is a relationship that begins with a fanfare and ends with a bang. This fiery combination of the Sun and the planet Mars is a difficult one. Any relationship with this combination is likely to be difficult to maintain unless there are other more positive connections. There is much excitement when B and A first get together; an electric sexual energy pulsates between both of them. Both B and A feel a rush of energy when in each other's company. However, this quickly becomes friction because B and A are trying to head in different directions. Conflict is likely. The problem is that B feels overpowered by the demands of A, and unable to positively express himself in this union. The frustration can build to the point where B's attitude aggravates A. B feels that his personality is squashed by A. A is frustrated by the demands of B, feeling unable to pursue her goals. In the end the sexual attraction may fail to be enough to maintain a long-term intimate union. Depending on other connections in this relationship B and A may finally decide to end their association. They may need to seek counsel on how to resolve conflict, which at times could be quite fiery.
A's Mercury is Trine B's Venus (Orb 3°29')
The combination of the personal planets of Mercury and Venus is a desirable one for an intimate union, and certainly advantageous to any association which requires harmony and collaboration. A and B enjoy each other's company, finding it easy to co-operate and share their experiences. They are compatible. Conversation has an easy flow and pastimes are fun, free of the restraints that sometimes hamper clear communication. A and B share an appreciation of the arts, perhaps even partaking in a joint creative or artistic activity. Discussions are harmonious because A and B are so often in agreement, including money. They concur on how money is saved and spent and enjoyed. A and B value the intellectual stimulation provided by each other. A, in particular, experiences mental inspiration from her association with B. Perhaps B is A's muse in some form of the arts. A gains confidence in her opinions and ideas as a result of her relationship with B. In return B appreciates A's intellect. B feels able to relax within this relationship knowing that A encourages rather than criticises him.
A's Mercury is Trine B's Mars (Orb 3°46')
There is an instant spark of attraction when A and B first meet, and this continues during the course of the relationship. The spark is likely to be an intellectual one, which may or may not result in a sexual attraction. A and B are stimulated by each other's company, enjoying lively conversations and energetic activities. Both A and B learn much from each other and enjoy facing challenges together which in turn help them to move forward in their own lives. This combination of the planets Mercury and Mars is ideal for any working association, which requires co-operation and drive in order to complete a challenging project. However, it can also be beneficial for personal relationships involving individuals who enjoy change and challenge. A is challenged to use her wits in this relationship. B's drive and determination force A to clarify her thoughts and opinions. A is likely to find this aspect of the relationship exciting. In turn B enjoys A's intellectual input which helps him achieve his personal goals. Together A and B may dare to take risks in their lives which lead to adventures that might otherwise have been missed.
A's Venus is Square B's Mars (Orb 1°05')
This is a strong combination for a love union because it creates an intense sexual attraction. The durability and nature of the relationship depends on other connections between A and B. Desire is strong, perhaps too strong at times in this relationship. A and B are likely to fall in love at first sight enjoying a passionate union, the type of love affair featured in romance novels. At first both A and B enjoy the intense physical nature of the union, but as time goes on the flames seem to burn too strongly. B begins to feel possessive and perhaps somewhat obsessive, eager to maintain the force of passion. A feels overwhelmed by the passion of the romance and the force of B's nature, and is in danger of becoming repulsed rather than attracted to B. As a result the relationship becomes a combat zone. A and B start to compete rather than co-operate. The positive side of the relationship is the strong attraction felt by both A and B. However, it is important for both A and B to learn to temper their desires in this union. They need to remain focused on co-operation and communication in order to keep an appropriate balance in the partnership. While this combination is often found between marriage or sexual partners, it can also be encountered in friendships or work associations which involve working on an artistic project. However, it is important that both individuals remain focused on the creative project at hand because a sexual flirtation could easily get out of control.
A's Mars is Trine B's Mars (Orb 6°56')
This is a feisty relationship full of healthy competition and possibly sexual frisson. In this association both A and B are challenged to produce their best efforts. They feel the sparks fly when they are together, bringing out an ambitious side to both their natures. As friends or work colleagues they enjoy the rivalry, and it is always possible that their shared drive and energy could become sexual, tipping their relationship into a love affair. A and B enjoy energetic activities such as sports and outdoor games. Together they feel able to conquer the world and overcome all obstacles in their path. Depending on other aspects of their relationship A and B may be lovers or friends, but this strong influence of the planet Mars can also indicate a work partnership that requires plenty of drive and initiative.
A's Mars is Conjunct B's Ascendant (Orb 2°11')
It is significant in relationship astrology when one person's planet makes contact with the Ascendant in another person's chart. In this case A's Mars is combining with B's Ascendant making for a lively and energetic union. While it is most likely that this relationship is an intimate one, it can also indicate a friendship, family or work association. In most cases this combination is a positive one, but it can also denote a union in which conflict is difficult to resolve and as a result battles abound. On a positive note A provides the initiative to help B achieve his goals. B appreciates the drive and direction provided by A. Problems may arise when A turns her attention away from the relationship disappointing B with her lack of support. The challenge is for both A and B to keep this relationship moving in a positive direction through understanding and patience.
Primary Forces
In addition to the intimate aspect of a relationship, there are usually a number of fundamental driving forces, which can be either major challenges or inspirations to the individuals involved. This section looks at how A and B stimulate and provoke each other.
B's Moon is Trine A's Jupiter (Orb 4°37')
This is a positive combination for any relationship enabling B and A to overcome any obstacles in life and embrace the happiness of the present moment. B and A enjoy each other's company and feel a certain zest for life when together. They share a need for fun-filled adventures and the capability of achieving their goals. B and A feel that the world is their oyster that is ready to explore together. This can include holidays in far-away places, adventure travel and also encompasses any activity that expands their minds and views of life. This is a meeting of higher-minds. B feels that A expands his horizons. B feels safe and appreciated in this relationship. A knows that B is a comrade in arms when it comes to fun and adventure. A feels that she is truly appreciated for her generosity and optimism. Together B and A can conquer the world. Nothing seems too far-fetched. This combination augurs well for a long lasting and happy relationship.
B's Moon is Trine A's Saturn (Orb 0°22')
A connection between the planet Saturn and the Moon is important. Saturn is the planet of commitment and stability and is often found in relationships that are long lasting. In other words a serious planet such as Saturn is needed for a serious, meaningful union. B and A are satisfied with the relationship and are willing to persist through troubled times realising that the rewards are great. A satisfying long-term relationship results from their patience and persistence. Together B and A are somewhat reserved, perhaps even withdrawing a little from society to enjoy the benefits of their relationship. They are aware that their relationship is one of the most important building blocks in their lives. There is maturity in this relationship. Perhaps B and A have formed this relationship later in life when they can truly appreciate each other and the life that they are building together. B feels that A is offering security and maturity, enabling him to mature in his emotional and home life. A grows in self-esteem through this relationship, believing that B respects her integrity. On the whole this is a positive combination for an enduring, long-term relationship such as marriage.
A's Moon is Trine B's Neptune (Orb 5°05')
Romance is a major theme in a union which involves the Moon and the planet Neptune. With this combination of planets A and B both feel that they are meant to be together. Perhaps they believe that it is a union of their souls. This is the height of romantic love. A and B intuitively understand each other and as a result their relationship proceeds from the start in a gentle and loving manner. They may simply enjoy relaxing in each other's company or together A and B may enjoy creative and harmonious pastimes which enhance their union bringing joy and fulfilment. They could work jointly on an artistic, musical or spiritual project, or simply share an inspirational hobby. Either way, they are drawn to each other in a way that is not logical. At times they may even feel as though they have a psychic connection. A feels inspired by B to the point of longing to be in B's company. B intuitively understands A's emotional needs and relates to A in a caring manner. This is a harmonious relationship. Problems can occur if A becomes overly dependent on B. However, on the whole it augurs well for a personal relationship which thrives on mutual love and understanding.
A's Moon is Trine B's Chiron (Orb 3°59')
A and B have a gentle and loving relationship, which plays a significant role in their lives. They have an intuitive understanding of each other's needs, an empathy that sometimes seems to go beyond the bounds of human understanding. A feels that destiny has played a role in attracting B into her life. It is true that B has the capability of sensitively changing A's life, helping her satisfy previously unmet emotional needs. B may play a nurturing, healing or teaching role in this relationship. It is likely that A feels safe in this relationship. In turn A provides B with opportunities to discover new talents, particularly in the fields of teaching, or orthodox or unconventional medicine. This is likely to be a close, intimate relationship that helps both A and B weather life's troubles and discover joy.
B's Sun is Conjunct A's Jupiter (Orb 9°52')
The Sun and the favourable planet Jupiter are combining suggesting that this relationship is blessed with good fortune and happiness. It is an ideal combination for an intimate relationship such as marriage because it indicates shared philosophies on life and the ability to grow together. Together B and A land on their feet no matter how difficult a situation. They seem destined to be in the right place at the right time. B and A enjoy each other's company, feeling all of the benefits that come with this union. Their optimism and enthusiasm are infectious, and as a couple they are popular. In particular B shines as a result of his association with A. B feels able to embrace life and all it has to offer. He is aware that his union with A is truly blessed and that it helps him to achieve his full potential. A knows that her horizons are continually expanding through her association with B. A feels able to conquer the world. In fact it is likely that both B and A enjoy travelling, studying or teaching together. They enjoy sharing anything that expands their minds and contributes positively to their lives.
B's Sun is Trine A's Saturn (Orb 4°52')
Many astrologers believe that a connection between the serious planet Saturn and a personal planet such as the Sun is important, providing the cement for a long-lasting relationship. In other words a serious planet is needed for a serious, meaningful union such as marriage. It is certainly true that the combination of the Sun and Saturn is found in many, meaningful relationships. However, the harmful planet Saturn can also cause problems. The extent of the problems varies according to the astrological aspect. Certainly this combination indicates that B and A both view this as a serious association, whether it is a marriage, friendship or a working partnership. Both B and A are committed to their association. It is likely that they experienced a strong attraction in the initial stages of their relationship, and it is likely to be long lasting. When B and A first meet they each know they have discovered a potential serious relationship, one to which they can commit and build on over a lifetime. If they believe in reincarnation, then it is likely that they feel a karmic attraction, a moment of recognition when they first look into the other person's eyes. However, the very qualities, which they seriously considered as attractive in the initial stages of the relationship, can become the source of friction if they are not careful. In particular, A needs to be wary of becoming too critical and judgmental. Initially A found B's personality traits to be worthy of a committed union. She admired B's qualities as complementing her own. However, it is easy for A to forget this attraction. As the relationship develops she feels threatened by the force of B's personality and takes a superior attitude in defence. As a result B feels threatened, disliking the authoritarian side of A. If B is not careful his self-confidence is whittled away and the relationship becomes onerous. It is vital that both B and A work at developing a stable basis for communication and understanding in this relationship. If both B and A work at maintaining their own self-confidence as well as mutual respect then they have the makings for a very successful marriage or working relationship. If this is the case they both benefit from the stability offered by this union, growing in integrity in their own lives.
A's Sun is Square B's Saturn (Orb 7°33')
Many astrologers believe that a connection between the serious planet Saturn and a personal planet such as the Sun is important, providing the cement for a long-lasting relationship. In other words, a serious planet is needed for a serious, meaningful union such as marriage. It is certainly true that the combination of the Sun and Saturn is found in many meaningful relationships. However, the planet Saturn can also cause problems. Certainly this combination indicates that A and B both view this as a serious association, whether it is a marriage, friendship or a working partnership. Both A and B are committed to their association. It is likely that they experienced a strong attraction in the initial stages of their relationship. When A and B first met they each knew they had discovered a potential serious relationship, one to which they could commit and build on over a lifetime. If they believe in reincarnation, then it is likely that they felt a karmic attraction when they first met. Perhaps this was a moment of recognition when they first looked into the other person's eyes. However, the very qualities, which they seriously considered as attractive in the initial stages of the relationship, can become the source of friction if they are not careful. In particular, B needs to be wary of becoming too critical and judgmental. Initially B found A's personality traits to be worthy of a committed union. He admired A's qualities as complementing his own. However, it is easy for B to forget this attraction. As the relationship develops he feels threatened by the force of A's personality and takes a superior attitude in defence. As a result A feels threatened, disliking the authoritarian side of B. If A is not careful her self-confidence is whittled away and the relationship becomes onerous. It is vital that both A and B work at developing a stable basis for communication and understanding in this relationship. If both A and B work at maintaining their own self-confidence as well as mutual respect then they have the makings for a very successful marriage or working relationship. Much of their success may depend on other supportive, positive connections between them.
A's Sun is Square B's North Node (Orb 3°37')
Destiny plays a strong role in A and B's relationship. There is an instant attraction, a spark that ignites the feelings of both A and B. However, fate can be a cruel mistress. This relationship is fraught with problems that A and B find difficult to understand and solve. In particular B feels that her light is hidden under bushel. He struggles to express his true self. Perhaps B owes A a favour that seems never to be full repaid or may B has an inexplicable sense of responsibility for A. Whatever the scenario both A and B face certain challenges before reaching a full understanding of this union.
B's Mercury is Trine A's Uranus (Orb 1°41')
This is an exciting and unpredictable relationship. B and A enjoy a lively union, whether it be a romance, friendship or work association. They take pleasure in topical conversations, sparking new ideas and ways of thinking. They may also enjoy taking part in an unusual activity or pursuing an environmental, humanitarian or political cause. This combination of planets indicates intellectual, rather than emotional, stimulation. Consequently this combination may indicate a friendship or work association, rather than a more personal union. However, an intimate relationship with other aspects is enhanced by this combination if both partners enjoy freedom. B and A are excited by each other's minds. In particular B realises that A sparks his creativity. Both B and A enjoy a new-found sense of freedom in each other's company.
A's Mercury is Sextile B's Neptune (Orb 1°35')
This is an inspirational relationship whether it be a romance, friendship or a creative working partnership. Both A and B feel excited by this union. Their imaginations are enlivened. In particular A's ideas are encouraged by B's creative input, enabling her to better express herself. It's possible that they work together on a creative project. Communication has an easy flow, more intuitive than concrete. A and B establish an empathetic bond which enables them both to exchange their thoughts and feelings with ease. If involved in a romantic liaison then A and B are likely to feel very much in love, viewing their union through rose-coloured glasses. Whatever the nature of the relationship, it is likely that A and B share an interest in the arts, a spiritual path or a philanthropic activity.
A's Mercury is Conjunct B's Pluto (Orb 5°21')
An intense relationship is the result of this combination of the planets Mercury and Pluto, with communication playing a key role. Consequently it is vital that both A and B communicate honestly, keeping all emotions and thoughts out in the open. This helps them to keep the relationship dynamic rather than volcanic. If A and B enjoy penetrating discussions and passionate pastimes then all is well. If they don't then their union could become overwhelming, particularly for A. Together they experience a change of perception which is ultimately rewarding, although initially could be disruptive. Notably B challenges A's way of viewing the world. This can be an excellent combination for personal and spiritual growth. Consequently it is an ideal combination for a therapist and client relationship. It can also be beneficial for an intimate relationship or friendship, if both partners enjoy intensity, and a demanding working association.
A's Mercury is Opposite B's Chiron (Orb 7°28')
This is a difficult combination of the planet Mercury and the asteroid Chiron. A and B have difficulty communicating in a manner that is rewarding. Instead they seem to hurt each other's feelings through saying the wrong thing. In particular B seems to upset A. The problem is that old hurtful memories surface in this relationship. A and B have subconsciously attracted each other in order to learn valuable life lessons, but the journey is not smooth. A is particularly sensitive to the words used by B, and has difficulty listening with emotional calm. A may accuse B of being insensitive and uncaring; however, B feels wrongfully accused. He genuinely struggles to find a better way of communicating what he means. These misunderstandings could lead to a breakdown in the relationship, or they could finally result in a better understanding of themselves and each other. Either way compassion is a key ingredient to successfully overcoming past hurts and developing loving communication.
B's Venus is Sextile A's Neptune (Orb 0°42')
Romance is the key theme of this combination of planets. B and A feel that they have met their one true love under the influence of the planets Venus and Neptune. They meet, fall in love and create a union brimming with romance, joy and idyllic love. Whether or not this idyll lasts depends on other aspects of the association. During the course of their union they are able to interact in a loving and creative manner. It's also possible that B and A participate in a joint creative and imaginative pursuit, inspiring each other to stretch their artistic talents. Perhaps B and A follow a spiritual path together. B is particularly attracted to A's artistic and altruistic nature. He appreciates all of the qualities that A brings to their relationship. In response A feels that B's support enables her talents to blossom. While this attraction is more likely to involve the love and devotion associated with a strong bond such as marriage, it can also depict a creative, artistic or spiritual working partnership.
B's Venus is Trine A's Pluto (Orb 1°40')
Intense emotions are central to this relationship. B and A feel a passionate attraction to each other, a compelling need to be together. Sexual magnetism plays an important role in the initial stages of the union and continues, even through times of emotional difficulties. It is also possible that B and A share an artistic or creative pursuit about which they are both ardent. Whatever the outlet for the emotions, the key is intensity. On the whole this combination of the planets Venus and Pluto has a positive influence on any association, but it can be overpowering in some instances. If both B and A enjoy intensity then this relationship positively transforms both their lives. Together they embrace the changes that challenge any relationship. If one of them dislikes emotional upheaval, then there are likely to be problems. In particular B may feel overwhelmed at times by the force of his own emotions or the power of A's personality. At other times B enjoys learning about how to be more influential in his life. A feels more powerful as a result of this union with B, more able to achieve her ambitions.
A's Venus is Opposite B's Jupiter (Orb 5°21')
Love and excitement are strong themes of this relationship. Both A and B feel a strong attraction and enjoy many pleasurable activities. Together A and B enjoy good fortune, exploring the realms of higher learning, culture, religion or metaphysics. They may delight in travelling to foreign lands, meeting new people and discovering different ways of life. Alternatively they may take delight in joining a study group closer to home. Initially this union expands their horizons and the attraction is strong. It is difficult for A and B to remain committed to each other, unless there are other indications of commitment in their association. The trouble is that B cannot seem to settle down, always looking for new horizons. He wants romance and excitement on a grand scale and expects A to join in. A also wants romance, but needs the security of commitment. B does not want to make a commitment. B enjoys his freedom and cannot understand why A is so insecure about their relationship. As the relationship progresses B becomes more impatient which in turn increases A's insecurities. Unless there are other aspects of the relationship, which indicate commitment and stability, this union, is likely to falter on rocky ground.
A's Venus is Square B's Neptune (Orb 3°16')
This association of the planets Venus and Neptune indicates idyllic love. A and B meet and fall deeply in love, fully appreciating each other's unique qualities. Romance abounds. Together A and B feel that they have found true love such as only Romeo and Juliet and Daphnis and Chloe experienced. However, there are problems associated with this combination of planets. A and B find that the initial idyllic love can start to prove illusory in the long term. As the relationship develops it becomes more difficult for them to escape from the demands of the mundane world into a world of romance. They become disillusioned. They would rather stay lost in a sea of blissful love than be reminded of the responsibilities of their separate lives. Both A and B are vulnerable in this state of pretence. They need to be wary of circumstances or people who prey on their impressionable state. In particular they need to avoid any spiritual groups, drugs and artistic enterprises that may be deceptive in their nature. Once A and B have learned to face their relationship honestly and with discrimination then they can enjoy a creative and loving partnership as well as artistic and spiritual pursuits.
A's Mars is Conjunct B's Pluto (Orb 5°21')
This combination of the stormy planets Mars and Pluto indicates a passionate and compelling union. The atmosphere is explosive when A and B get together. Sexual energy seems to simmer barely under control. Both A and B need to be wary of letting the force of their heated emotions build up. They need a positive outlet for all of their pent-up energy whether this be a challenging home renovation project or a regular work-out at the gym. Together A and B feel able to conquer the world and are certainly a power to be reckoned with. The initial stages of the relationship are fraught with sexual tension, but the union may not be an intimate one. Rather it may be a partnership committed to hard work and a challenging project. Either way as the relationship develops, the strong and creative force of both A and B takes over and can be directed into a mutually satisfying project. In other words A and B can be passionate about each other or they can direct their passion into an external activity. Either way this is a dynamic and explosive relationship.
B's Mars is Square A's Jupiter (Orb 4°24')
B and A have difficulty maintaining equilibrium in this relationship. They both eagerly approach joint tasks. There is no lack of enthusiasm, only a lack of harmony. Problems arise at the start of any joint project because B and A fail to agree on common goals. Once they have managed to agree on the goals, then they both have their own ideas about what is the best process of achieving those goals. They often seem to be heading in opposite directions. In fact they put their own independent desires first, rather than considering what is best for the bigger picture. B has a tendency to force A to do things his way. At times B can be quite aggressive in his communication. A believes that she knows best. The result is tension and arguments. The challenge is for both B and A to learn to co-operate, each using their own talents while respecting the skills of the other person.
A's Mars is Square B's Saturn (Orb 2°33')
This combination of the planets Mars and Saturn suggests a strong commitment in which A and B initially struggle to understand each other. On the one hand both A and B are committed to making this partnership work. On the other hand they face almost insurmountable difficulties along the way. Ancient astrologers consider the planets Mars and Saturn to have a harmful effect on humanity. Therefore this relationship needs to be treated with respect, to avoid causing emotional or physical damage to either A or B. The trouble is that they are both determined to force their own egos on to each other, and can be quite brutal in their efforts to get the other person to do as they wish. They need to develop understanding and respect for each other, if it does not already exist. Sometimes B tries to force his methods on to A, only to meet A's stubborn refusal to budge on certain matters. The challenge is a big one in this union. Both A and B need to carefully consider the future of this relationship, knowing that only mutual respect and caring communication can shine a light on their difficulties.
B's Mars is Opposite A's Neptune (Orb 0°25')
B and A have difficulty maintaining a long-term commitment because of the negative influence of the planets Mars and Neptune. There is a strong sense of loss associated with this influence. Perhaps B and A have formed a bond based on a shared sense of grief or loss, or maybe they fail to establish a loving bond and suffer as a result. In extreme cases they may be victims of each other's abuse. They find it very difficult to be honest with each other, because straight-talking often becomes confused and hurtful. There is a tendency for them to resort to deceit in order to escape the emotional pain associated with misunderstandings. Of course much of this depends on the influence of other aspects of their relationship. It is possible that B and A share a common bond by working together on an artistic, musical, dramatic, spiritual or philanthropic project thereby maintaining a positive focus in their association. However, it is more likely that they struggle to find common ground and therefore maintain a strong and loving bond.
B's Mars is Opposite A's North Node (Orb 6°56')
The fiery planet Mars and the fateful North Node provides a powerful combination of forces. B and A are dynamite together. This can be positive in that together they can achieve their goals. However this union can also be a threat to their life goals if they allow their desires to take over. In some cases this union could threaten either B or A's safety. Violence, and violent situations, need to be avoided at all times. Passion may be a driving force in this liaison. Both B and A feel a strong attraction. A personal relationship may be fraught with difficulties unless B and A find a joint project about which they are passionate, or a goal, which demands much energy. This combination may be beneficial in a partnership that works on an energetic, demanding or physically powerful project - one that involves plenty of hard work and challenges.
B's Jupiter is Trine A's Uranus (Orb 5°09')
Spiritual and philosophical interests could be at the centre of this relationship. B and A enjoy a meeting the meeting of two minds. They are excited by each other's innovative ideas, perhaps sharing a common creative project. Their relationship follows an erratic course, but they are both happy with the stimulation and excitement. They enjoy a non-orthodox association, spurning a more traditional one. A wide range of subjects crop up in conversations including philosophy, science, religion, metaphysics, technology, world cultures, environmental science and world politics, to name a few. B and A spend much of their time together pursuing their common interests and learning from each other. B experiences a broadening of his intellectual concepts through his association with A. He delights in the challenges that this ever-changing relationship provides. A is excited by B's keen interest in her ideas. She appreciates the freedom of expression and exchange of ideas. This is an intellectual connection and therefore is more likely to benefit a friendship rather than a lover's union.
A's Jupiter is Square B's Neptune (Orb 2°14')
When A and B first meet they are attracted to each other's spiritual and religious values. Their imaginations are inspired by each other's differing beliefs. However, as the relationship develops the novelty wears off and conflict arises. At first A and B may not be aware of the deterioration of this side of their association. It is an insidious process and one that A and B find hard to understand. The problem is that their conflicting religious or spiritual values are undermining the success of their union. Secretly B believes that he is following the true path. He does not realise that this is a rejection of his partner's values. A is more vocal in her opposition to B's convictions. Both A and B have difficulty allowing each other to follow their own spiritual truth. Eventually conflict over spiritual matters takes its toll on this association. The challenge is for A and B to discover a way in which they can both offer support and understanding for their opposing spiritual or religious values.
Generational Values
Underpinning the success of many relationships is a sense of shared values. Often this comes from simply being born into the same generation. However, sometimes it is more complex. In this section we explore whether or not A and B share the same societal values.
B's Saturn is Trine A's Uranus (Orb 2°06')
The planet Saturn is a vital ingredient in relationship astrology. It is the planet that represents stability and commitment and is seen by astrologers as the necessary glue that holds a relationship together on a long-term basis. Of course not everyone is seeking long-term commitment, but for those who are Saturn is a welcome sign. In this case B and A are approaching their union from different angles and this can be both beneficial and detrimental. On the one hand B and A feel drawn to each other, recognising that they each have different traits to bring to this union. B is probably the more serious of the pair, providing stability and commitment, whereas A is more likely to provide the impetus for growth and change. If B becomes too stuck in his ways then A is able to spark a change of attitude. Together they strike a happy balance between responsibility and diversity.
A's Saturn is Square B's Chiron (Orb 1°49')
This union is fraught with difficulties, mainly because of A and B's past experiences in relationships. Hurtful experiences from previous important relationships initially have a negative impact hampering both A and B's ability to build a secure and loving relationship. However, both A and B are committed to each other, to making this relationship work. As a result past hurts are examined and healed in this union. It is possible that A fears emotional intimacy, at first putting up barriers that hinder the growth of this union. Perhaps she has trouble trusting the strength of the bond with A. Gradually A learns to trust the enduring nature of this relationship and both A and B learn the joys of intimacy.
A's Uranus is Conjunct B's Uranus (Orb 1°16')
This combination of the planets Uranus indicates an electric connection, which excites both A and B. They feel that they are on the same intellectual wavelength, and welcome each other's creative ideas. Together they enjoy innovative projects. Technology, science, politics, the environment, metaphysics and world events may spark their curiosity. The key is intellectual stimulation and joint discovery of new uncharted territories. Their relationship undergoes periods of upheaval, but on the whole both A and B prefer the unexpected changes to settling into a routine. Together A and B are able to enjoy independence, enabling each other plenty of freedom to pursue their individual activities. In some cases this combination may simply indicate that A and B are a similar age. Nevertheless the effect is still one that enhances their relationship.
A's Uranus is Opposite B's Chiron (Orb 7°08')
Healing and growth are possible in this relationship, but the road to new understandings is bumpy. The challenge for A and B is to forgive and forget loved ones, who have hurt them in the past so that they can move forward in their lives. A may force radical changes in B's life, which are initially painful but eventually prove healing in certain ways. B's insecurities may prompt A to re-evaluate her commitments to the relationship. The success of this relationship will largely depend on other aspects of A and B's union.
A's Neptune is Conjunct B's Neptune (Orb 2°36')
This planetary combination of Neptune indicates common ideals, which can help form a basis for a relationship. However, many other combinations of planets will make a more significant contribution to this union between A and B. In some cases this combination may simply indicate that A and B are a similar age. Nevertheless the effect is still one that enhances their relationship because all liaisons benefit from a sharing of values and ideals.
A's Neptune is Sextile B's Pluto (Orb 1°09')
This planetary combination of Neptune and Pluto indicates common values, which can help form a basis for a relationship. However, many other combinations of planets will make a more significant contribution to this union between A and B. All relationships benefit from a sharing of values, however this combination is not highly significant.
A's Pluto is Conjunct B's Pluto (Orb 0°12')
This planetary combination of Pluto indicates common values, which can help form a basis for a relationship. Similar deep forces, which enable them to understand each other's motives, may drive A and B. However, many other combinations of planets will play a more momentous role in this union between A and B. In some cases this combination may simply indicate that A and B are a similar age. Nevertheless the effect is still one that enhances their relationship because all liaisons benefit from a sharing of values.
A's Chiron is Conjunct B's Chiron (Orb 4°53')
The asteroid Chiron indicates a shared sense of ethics. These ethics could stem from A and B sharing similar social backgrounds, or perhaps they both experienced a similar painful childhood experience. These hurtful memories could have driven them to form their own life principles, which they can then share with each other. It is also possible that A and B have a common bond as students, teachers, patients or healers. In some cases this combination may simply indicate that A and B are a similar age. Nevertheless the effect is still one that enhances their relationship because all liaisons benefit from a sharing of values.